Overcoming Sadness

Our reading today is Philippians 4:8

“Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think on these things.”

You heard people say, “I can’t help how I feel.”  

We’ve all said it. But Scripture whispers otherwise. Feelings are not dictators; they are followers. And what they follow is the direction of our thoughts.  

I learned this truth during a season of weary mornings. Thirty miles of traffic carried me toward a job I didn’t like. Each mile became a rehearsal of disappointments. By the time I arrived, my spirit was drained. Then one morning, clarity came: I wasn’t discouraged because of what had happened—I was discouraged because of what I was thinking. I was reliving old wounds, giving them fresh power.  

That realization was liberating. The cure wasn’t to erase the past, but to redirect the present. From then on, when negative thoughts surfaced, I chose to change the subject to a blessing remembered, a promise recalled, or an old good time I had enjoyed.  

Paul’s counsel in Philippians 4:8 became my lifeline: “Whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right…think about such things.”

God doesn’t ask us to deny reality. He invites us to dwell on His goodness. Surely there is something lovely in your life: a sunrise, a friend’s kindness, a great family meal. Think on these, and watch how they crowd out despair.  

You are not powerless over your feelings. You are the steward of your thoughts. And when you choose what is excellent and praiseworthy, you choose joy.

Your mind is but a garden; thoughts are the only seeds it knows.
If you sow worry and regret, thorns of sorrow will choke the rows.
But if you sow gratitude and grace, then peace will settle in its place.

I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking.

God of the Hills

Our text today is 1 Kings 20:23.

“Their gods are gods of the hills. That is why they prevailed over us. Instead, we should fight them on the plains; surely then we will prevail.”

This is truly stupid advice. The king of Aram’s servants thought they had cracked the code. They assumed Israel’s God was limited to mountaintops, confined to high places where victories seemed natural. If you read the rest of the story, you will discover that they were wrong. God is the God of everywhere.

Sometimes we fall into the same trap. We trust Him when life feels like a hilltop, when the sun is shining, prayers are answered, and joy is abundant. But when the life flattens into valleys of sickness, loss, or discouragement, we hesitate. We wonder if God is strong enough for our pain. We stop praying. We stop trusting. And in doing so, we echo the mistake of Syria.

But the God who reigns on the hills reigns on the plains. He is Lord of the hospital room as much as the wedding aisle. He is present in the paycheck and in the pink slip. He is faithful in the sunrise and in the midnight hour. Your circumstances do not shrink His power. Your geography does not limit His presence.  

So whether you stand on a mountain or walk across a barren plain, remember: the same God is with you. And He never loses.

I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking.

A Forever Memory

Our reading today is: 1 Thessalonians 4:14 

“For we believe that Jesus died and rose again, and so we believe that God will bring with Jesus those who have fallen asleep in him.”

It seemed to me just another day, but I could not have known how that one day would provide a forever memory. The phone rang, and I didn’t know the person on the other end. He ask an unusual question. How much do you charge for a funeral service? 

I always answer that with, “I don’t charge anything.” I then add “Whatever you want to give me as a gift. It’s always fine.“

So I started my answer: “I don’t charge anything.” Before I could finish the sentence, he interrupted, “Oh, that’s wonderful because they don’t have any money!” He told me it was to be a graveside-only funeral. 

The next morning, I was the first to arrive at the gravesite. I had trouble finding it because it looked liked like a large, wooden shoebox laying on the ground. In fact, it was the coffin of a child, a baby.

In a little while, the mother and father arrived. Only a handful of others came, each weighed down with grief. I opened the Scriptures and spoke briefly of life, death, heaven, and the joy of being with Jesus. Then I prayed—and just like that, the service was over.

I didn’t leave that day feeling unpaid. I left feeling honored, thankful that God let me help hurting strangers. And someday, in eternity’s forever, I’ll meet the soul we buried. That reunion will be my true reward, the final payment for my service.

I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking. 

Face to Face

Our reading today is 1 Corinthians 13:12

“Now we see but a dim reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face.”

In Exodus 33 Moses asks to see God. He means he wants to actually see God with his eyes. The Lord says, “Yes.” He told Moses there was a place near Him, a rock where he could stand. He covered Moses with His hand, and allowed him to see only His back as His glory passed by. 

Before that moment Moses had already done incredible things. He walked into Pharaoh’s throne room because God told him to go. He lifted his staff over the Red Sea because God told him to do it. Every brave step he took was anchored in one simple truth. He trusted the word of God long before he ever saw even the edge of His glory.

We can live the same way. God speaks to us through His written word, and when we follow it with a willing heart, we walk the same path Moses walked. One day like Moses, we will see God with our own eyes. As today’s verse says, “One day we will see Him face to face.”

Wow! Face to Face!I can hardly wait!

I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking. 

What Next?

Our reading today is Matthew 18:16

In the verse just before this Jesus taught, “If someone offends you, go to them in private and try to restore the relationship.” Today’s thought asks the follow-up question, “What do we do if they won’t listen at all?” To that question, Jesus answers,

“But if he will not listen, take one or two others along, so that ‘every matter may be established by the testimony  of two or three witnesses.”

I used to think the purpose of bringing two or three witnesses was mainly to prove that I confronted someone properly, so others would know I had done my part. Maybe that plays a role, but I’ve come to believe something else matters far more. We bring others along so we can see the whole truth. It may be that my brother didn’t listen because he had a side I never considered. When these friends join me, they may gently say, “Lonnie, I understand what you’re saying, but that’s not quite how it happened.” Their presence might help me see more both sides, even if the truth includes my own mistake.

I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking.

When Worry Knocks

Worry is a thief. It steals sleep, peace, and joy. Jesus knew this, which is why He said plainly, “Do not worry.” But how? How do we silence the storm of anxious thoughts? Here are five helps for seasons of worry:

First: Pray first, not last. When anxiety knocks, let prayer answer. Philippians 4:6 invites us to bring every concern to God—with thanksgiving. Prayer isn’t our last resort; it’s our first response.

Second: Live in today! Don’t borrow trouble from tomorrow. Jesus said, “Do not worry about tomorrow” (Matthew 6:34). Tomorrow’s troubles haven’t arrived yet. Stay in today!

Third: Remember who God is! In psalm 46:10 God says, “Be still and know that I am God.” Translation? Stop striving. He is God and he is in control. That’s great news. If He’s in charge and He loves you, things will work out in the end. If it hasn’t worked out, it isn’t the end.

Fourth: Count blessings, not burdens. Gratitude is a holy distraction. It shifts your gaze from lack to abundance. Worry withers in the presence of thanksgiving.

Fifth:  Remember God’s past faithfulness. Think back. Hasn’t He carried you before? Didn’t He show up when you thought all was lost? Yesterday’s mercies are receipts for tomorrow’s provision.

Worry will knock, but don’t let it move in. Let prayer, presence, and praise guard your heart. God’s got this. And He’s got you.

I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking.

The Blame Game

Our reading today is Genesis 3:12-13

And the man answered, “The woman whom You gave me, she gave me fruit from the tree, and I ate it.”

Then the LORD God said to the woman, “What is this you have done?”

“The serpent deceived me,” she replied, “and I ate.”

The three questions had been asked. Adam and Eve didn’t have a good answer, so they did what most people do, they made excuses. All the excuses were the same, “Not my fault!”

The man’s answer was, “It was her fault.” Then he added, “You gave her to me.” He was hinting that it was a little bit of God’s fault. The woman didn’t accept the blame either. She said, “The serpent deceived me.” This was the original statement of “The devil made me do it.”

What was the serpent’s excuse? He offered none because he knew he had not a leg to stand on!

It would have been better if they had just accepted responsibility for what they had done. Personal responsibility is the foundation of character. It means owning our choices instead of blaming others or circumstances. Adam and Eve didn’t know this yet, but growth begins when we accept responsibility for our actions. 

Our excuses may sound more sophisticated than theirs, but they are no different. The heart that dodges blame still hides from God.

I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking.

What Did You Do?

God asked three questions of Adam and Eve.

First, “Where are you?”

Second, “Who told you that you were naked?”

And then the third: “Have you eaten from the tree…?” It’s God’s way of asking, “What did you do?”

The question isn’t found in the text, but in the context. Adam and Eve’s shame didn’t come from nowhere. Their hiding revealed their doing.

Here’s the truth we need to remember: God is not concerned only with how you feel, but also about what you do. 

What you do has consequences. That broken relationship? Something happened. That damaged reputation? Someone did something. That gnawing guilt? There’s a reason.

We live in a world obsessed with feelings, but God asks about behavior. “What did you do?” Not “How do you feel about it?” Not “What were your intentions?” Actions have consequences.

The garden teaches us this: you can’t hide the fruit of the forbidden tree. It shows up in our shame, in our fear, in a fractured fellowship with God.

But here’s the grace woven into the question—God asks because restoration begins with honesty. He doesn’t ask because He’s confused. He asks because we need to own what we do.

Consequences are bread crumbs leading back to choices. 

What you do matters.

I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking.

The Second Question?

Genesis 3:10–12 paints a moment both tender and tragic. 

Adam hides among the trees, clutching leaves to cover his nakedness. God calls, “Where are you?” and Adam answers, “I was afraid because I was naked.” Then comes the question: “Who told you?”

It wasn’t a question for information; it was an invitation to reflection. Somewhere along the way, Adam had started listening to a different voice. The serpent had whispered lies, and Adam believed them. Before that, only God’s voice filled the garden: steady, kind, and true. But once another voice entered the conversation, failure followed close behind.

Sometimes, we do the same! We let the wrong voices shape our hearts. The voice that says we’re not enough. The one who insists God can’t forgive us this time. The one that shouts louder than God. When we listen to those voices, shame takes root and peace slips away.

But God still calls out, “Who told you that?” He invites us to tune our hearts back to Him—to the voice that does not condemn, does not mislead, and never stops loving. The next time you feel unworthy or afraid, ask yourself, “Who told me that?” Then turn your ear toward the One who always speaks truth.

I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking.

God’s First Question

It was the first question God ever asked of man. Not “What have you done?” or “Why did you fail?” but “Where are you?” A question not of geography, but of relationship. God knew exactly where Adam crouched among the fig leaves and shame. But He asked anyway. Why?

Because grace always initiates the search.

Even after the fall, even after the fruit was bitten and the trust was broken, God came walking. Not storming. Not shouting. Walking. Seeking. Calling. “Where are you?” It’s the voice of a Father who refuses to let sin have the final word.

Sin creates distance. It drives us into the shadows, convinces us we’re better off hiding. But God doesn’t abandon the hiding. He pursues. He invites. He speaks.

The same voice that spoke galaxies into being now speaks to a trembling man. The same breath that stirred life into dust now stirs hope into guilt. “Where are you?” is not condemnation—it’s an invitation. A summons to step out of the shadows. A mercy wrapped in a question.

So if you’re hiding today behind regret, behind fear, behind failure, listen. That voice still calls. Not with anger, but with love. Not to shame, but to restore. The Creator of the cosmos is asking, “Where are you?” Not because He doesn’t know, but because He wants you to know: He’s still seeking. He’s still speaking.

His voice still calls.

I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking.

The “My Life” Lie

There’s a lie we tell ourselves when we’re bent on our own way. It whispers in our ears like a friend: “It’s my life. I’m only hurting me. So leave me alone.”

Proverbs 17:25 tells a different story: “A foolish son brings grief to his father and bitterness to her who bore him.”

Your life? Perhaps. But never only yours.

Think of your mother’s face when she first held you, or your father’s pride at your first step, your first word, your first triumph. They invested more than time. They poured their hearts into you. Their dreams wrapped around your future like a blanket of hope.

Here’s the truth that stings: when you stumble into foolishness, you don’t stumble alone. The tremor of your choices ripples outward, splashing grief onto the shores of hearts that love you most. Both parents feel it, that deep, aching sorrow that comes when dreams fracture and hope grows heavy.

No one lives as an island. Your choices echo in the chambers of other people’s hearts, especially those who bore you, raised you, and believed in you.

So before you make that next decision, pause. Ask yourself: “Who else will feel this? Whose heart might break alongside mine?”

Your life matters far beyond yourself. The question isn’t whether you’ll affect others. The question is: will you bring joy or grief to those who love you most?

I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking.

Howling for Change

Jonah 1:12 says, “Pick me up and throw me into the sea. Then the sea will become calm for you.”

Wait! What? Jonah could’ve said, “Turn the boat toward Nineveh.” That would’ve calmed the storm. But instead, he chose the sea. He chose drowning. He chose death over obedience.

Ever been that stubborn?

I once heard about a farmer and his dog. The dog lay on the porch, occasionally letting out a long, pitiful howl. A visitor asked, “What’s wrong with the dog?”
“He’s lying on a nail,” the farmer replied.
“Why doesn’t he move?”
“Guess it don’t hurt bad enough yet.”

Jonah was lying on a nail. God said go. Jonah said no. When the storm came, he didn’t repent. He opted for the sea and death. But God wasn’t done. Jonah found himself in the belly of a fish, in the depths of the sea, wrapped in seaweed and regret. And finally there, in the dark, he got off the nail.

Pain is a great teacher. It doesn’t always whisper, it howls. It reminds us that God’s commands aren’t suggestions. They’re invitations to life. And when we resist, the storm comes. Not to destroy us, but to redirect us.

Are you lying on a nail today? Is God calling you to forgive, to go, to trust? Don’t wait for the storm to howl louder. Get off the nail. Do the thing you know God’s asking of you.

I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking.

Reject Revenge

Some say, “I don’t get mad, I get even.” As if evening the score were something noble. As if payback were a virtue worth pursuing.

But God sees it differently.

Solomon put it plainly: “Do not say, ‘Thus I shall do to him as he has done to me; I will render to the man according to his work.'” Don’t plot your revenge. Don’t scheme to balance the scales.

Here’s why: When we take vengeance into our own hands, we step into a place we were never meant to stand. We climb onto the judge’s bench. We wrap ourselves in God’s robes. We declare, “I’ll be the one to make this right.”

But that throne is taken.

God is your defender. He sees what happened. He knows the depth of the wound, the weight of the injustice. And He is fully capable of handling it without your help. When you seek revenge, you’re not just acting out—you’re saying, “God, You’re not enough. You won’t do what needs to be done, so I will.”

Private vengeance is sinful not just because it’s harmful, but because it puts us in God’s place.

So what do you do with the hurt? Where do you put the pain when someone has wronged you?

You give it to the One who wore your wounds on a cross. You surrender the score-settling to the One who keeps perfect accounts. You trust that God’s justice is better than your revenge, His timing wiser than your impulses, His mercy deeper than your bitterness.

Let Him be God. Let Him defend. Let Him judge.

I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking.

Notice!

Most days of a person’s life are just ordinary. That’s the way it was for Moses that day. The desert was quiet. Sand stretched to the horizon, sheep wandered lazily, and Moses walked through another routine moment of an ordinary life. Then—fire. A bush ablaze, burning but not consumed. No thunder. No trumpet. Just a whisper of wonder flickering in the wilderness.

Most folks might have walked on, muttering about mirages and heat. But Moses didn’t. Scripture says he “turned aside.”

Those two words changed everything. The divine moments rarely shout. They whisper. God does not force Himself on distracted hearts. He waits for a turning. Every “burning bush” begins with curiosity, attention, and pause.

How many bushes do we pass each day? A phrase that lingers from a verse. A tug in prayer we silence with hurry. A hurting soul who needs our listening. Perhaps God is there, hidden in plain sight, waiting for us to turn aside.

When Moses did, heaven spoke: “Moses, Moses!” What began as observation became a life’s work. The shepherd met his calling not in a palace, but by looking closer at a burning bush.

So today, turn aside. Let ordinary moments become holy ground. God still surrounds your life with small burning fires that call you to serve him. Just notice!

I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking.

What Fools Say…

Our text today is Psalm 14:1

“The fool has said in his heart, ‘There is no God.'”

Really? There is no God!

Here are 5 things that lead people to such a conclusion. 

1. Sometimes it’s pain—suffering so deep that a good God seems impossible. 

2. Sometimes it’s pride—that stubborn self-sufficiency that refuses to admit dependence. “I can handle life on my own” becomes the creed of the self-made soul.

3. Sometimes it’s culture. In our broken world, faith gets labeled as outdated and unsophisticated. People absorb this attitude like secondhand smoke and assume disbelief is the intelligent position.

4. Sometimes it’s moral resistance. Believing in God means accepting His standards. Denying Him becomes a way to quiet an inconvenient conscience. 

5. Sometimes it’s simple distraction. Life moves fast, and reflection takes time. Many never pause long enough to consider eternal things.

But here’s the heart of it: whether God exists is the most significant question you’ll ever face. Scholars have devoted lifetimes to studying the evidence. Others have given it a few hours and walked away convinced He’s not there.

That’s the fool the psalmist describes—not someone who lacks intelligence, but someone who dismisses the most important question without real study. The question remains: does God exist? It is the most important question of all, because everything else hangs on it. To dismiss it casually is to gamble eternity on a passing opinion. The wise seek, the proud dismiss, but the honest heart that searches will find Him—because He is there to be found.

I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking.

Show, Don’t Tell

Our Verse is 1 Corinthians 11:1

 “Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ.”

In this verse Paul shows us that he understood something we often forget: leadership isn’t about the rulebook you carry—it’s about the path you walk.

Notice what Paul didn’t say. He didn’t say, “Do what I tell you.” He said, “Follow me.” There’s a world of difference between the two. One demands compliance. The other invites companionship.

Paul lived what he taught. His letters weren’t penned from an ivory tower but from prison cells and dusty roads. He didn’t hand down commands he himself refused to obey. He walked the narrow way first, then turned around and said, “Come on. Follow me as I follow Christ.”

Someone once said, “My father didn’t tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.” That’s the heart of genuine influence. Whether you’re raising children, leading a team, or mentoring a friend, your life is the loudest sermon you’ll ever preach.

Ralph Waldo Emerson reminded us: “What you do speaks so loudly that I cannot hear what you say.”

Your kids are watching. Your coworkers are watching. Your neighbors are watching. Not to catch you in a mistake, but to learn how to live.

I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking.

Working for Good!

Let’s read Romans 8:28

“We know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose.”

My Ginger and Jeff love this verse and can tell you about hard days. When flames consumed their apartment, they didn’t lose just possessions—they lost their sense of order. She and Jeff moved to a noisy place. Their business ground to a halt. Routines crumbled. Days grew heavy with uncertainty.

But God doesn’t waste our pain. He recycles it.

Within two weeks of the fire, Ginger and Jeff closed on a new home on a quiet cul-de-sac. A fresh start and a dream realized! I couldn’t help but smile, because sometimes the thing we’re running from is actually pushing us toward the thing we’ve been praying for.

This is what Romans 8:28 really means. Not that bad things don’t hurt. They do. Not that loss doesn’t sting. It does. But God doesn’t leave us in the wreckage. He’s working, even when we can’t see His hand moving.

I told Ginger and Jeff something I’m telling you today: “For Christians, everything works out in the end. If it hasn’t worked out yet, then it is not the end.”

Some answers come in two weeks. Some take two years. Some we won’t understand until eternity. But if you love God and follow His calling, He promises to weave every thread—even the dark ones—into something beautiful.

Your ending isn’t written yet. Trust the Author.

I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking.

Do It Scared!

Our reading for today is Psalm 56:3–4:

“When I am afraid, I put my trust in You. In God, whose word I praise—in God I trust.”

David knew fear. He wasn’t writing from an ivory tower but from caves and battlefields. His words aren’t from a man who never trembled—they’re from a man who did, but who found a place to stand when everything around him shook. He’s saying, “Fear comes—but faith answers.”

We all have our own list of fears. Failure. Rejection. The unknown. Loss. Aging. Financial strain. Change. Even death. Fear whispers in a hundred different voices, but faith only needs one reply: I trust in God.

When David’s men turned against him and spoke of stoning him, Scripture says, “David was greatly distressed…but he found strength in the Lord his God” (1 Samuel 30:6). He didn’t wait for courage to find him. He went and found it in God.

Maybe that’s where you are today—standing in the middle of something that scares you. Don’t deny the fear. Just don’t let it have the last word. Like David, talk back to it. Remind yourself that God’s promises are still good, His presence still near, His love still strong.

I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking.

Dog Bites & Prayer

Our verse today is Proverbs 19:3.

“A man’s own folly subverts his way, yet his heart rages against the Lord.”

When you understand this verse, you will understand that it says we do things that hurt us and then wonder why God did this to us!

It reminds me of the story of the father who walked up on his son and his dog. The dog (named Kelly) and the four-year-old Josh had a wonderful relationship. Although the dog and the boy loved each other, the dog often had to put up with the boy’s behavior. Josh loved to hug the dog. Kelly would take as much as he could, but would eventually turn around and nip at the boy to make him turn loose.

One day, the father walked up on Josh and Kelly. Josh had his arms around the dog and his head tucked into the dog’s body so that Kelly could not bite him so easily. As Dad noticed that Josh’s eyes were closed and he heard him say a little prayer, “Dear God, please don’t let Kelly bite me.”

“Josh,” the father said, “God would be more apt to answer your prayer, if you would let go of the dog.”

We, too, are like the little boy holding on to the dog. He knows the dog will bite him, but prays that he won’t bite. We also do things that will bite us, but we don’t want to feel the bite. What do we do to stop the biting? We pray. We only pray!

We pray for a happy marriage and then neglect one another. We pray for a closer walk with God, but do not read His Word. We pray for peace, yet we live life at a frantic pace.

Each of us should examine the things that we pray for and then decide what we can do to help make the prayers come true. 

Continue praying, but also do your part.

I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking.

Live Until…

Our reading is Genesis 27:1-2

It is the story of old Isaac asking a favor from his son. 

“Now it came to pass when Isaac was old and his eyes were so dim that he could not see, that he called Esau his older son and said to him, ‘My son,’ and he answered him, ‘Here I am.’ Then he said, ‘Behold now I am old, and I do not know the day of my death.'”

Isaac feels his life ebbing away and seeks a favor of his son. He used the line, “I do not know the day of my death,” and then asks his son for a favor. Interestingly, Isaac lived somewhere between 20 and 40 more years, before he died. Maybe Isaac would have done well to hear the old adage, “If you ain’t dead, you ain’t done.”

What is the point of remembering that story? Simply this: Wake up each day and remember that God has given you the gift of another day, rejoice and use it. 

I close with the story of a teacher who lost her mother. On her first day back teaching, one little girl gave her wisdom beyond her years. She told the teacher, “I’m sorry about your mother,” and then added, “But I hope you live until you die.” 

Maybe Isaac’s story will remind us all to live until we die. 

I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking.