Think First

Our wisdom for today is from Proverbs 21:23.

“He who guards his mouth and tongue keeps his soul from distress.”

I think this message is quite clear, but let me paraphrase this for you.

“A person who watches what they say and controls their tongue keeps themselves out of trouble.”

Maybe you are the one in a hundred who does not need this message, but I have heard myself say, “I wish I had not said that.” I have suffered the consequences of a word I should not have said. I’ll bet you have, too!

How can we avoid this problem? If there is one thing we can do to avoid the consequences of saying things we later regret, it is this: Think before you speak.

The story is told of an elderly lady who was loved by all. One day, someone asked her why she was so admired. She answered, “I always taste my words before I spit them out.”

That story sums up the teaching of Proverbs 21:23. “Guard your mouth,” which means to taste your words before you spit them out.

I’m Lonnie Davis and these are thoughts worth thinking.

The Secret of Being Alone

At some time in our lives, we all feel alone.

Nearing the end of Jesus’s earthly life, He told his disciples, “you will leave me all alone.”

Jesus knew that the time of his arrest, trial, and crucifixion was nearing. Jesus also knew that those closest to him would run.

So where do you get the strength to hold on when there is no one there to hold?

Jesus knew the great secret of being alone. Listen to the way he explained it in John 16, verse 32.

“An hour is coming, and has already come, when you will be scattered, each to his own home, and you will leave Me all alone…”

He then told them the secret of being alone: “Yet I am not alone, because the Father is with Me.”

Jesus knew that when everything is against you, when your cross is near, when even those closest to you desert you, even then. You are never alone.

No, because the father is with you.

I’m Lonnie Davis and these are thoughts worth thinking.

Shiny Things or Wisdom

Our wisdom for today is Proverbs 20:15:

“There is an abundance of gold and rubies, but lips of knowledge are a rare treasure.”

In today’s world, it’s easy to find wealthy neighborhoods. Drive through certain areas, and you’ll see million-dollar homes and luxury cars. The United States alone boasts over 22 million millionaires. Material wealth is visibly abundant and easily recognizable.

However, wisdom is not as readily apparent. You can’t drive through a neighborhood and pinpoint who possesses true knowledge and understanding. Unlike wealth, which can be displayed through physical possessions, wisdom is an intangible quality. It resides within and reveals itself through thoughtful words and actions.

Proverbs 20:15 reminds us that gold and rubies are valuable, but true wisdom is rarer and more precious. Lips that speak wisdom are a treasure because they offer guidance, insight, and understanding that material wealth cannot provide.

Shiny things are everywhere, but only wisdom makes a lasting impact.

I’m Lonnie Davis and these are thoughts worth thinking.

Actions Speak Louder

Our wisdom for today is found in Proverbs 20:6.

“Many a man proclaims his loving devotion, but who can find a trustworthy man?”

This profound verse echoes Maya Angelou’s famous quote: “When people show you who they are, believe them the first time.” Both sentiments underscore a crucial life lesson: actions speak louder than words.

We often encounter people who boast about their loyalty and good intentions. However, words alone cannot measure one’s character. It is through consistent, reliable actions that character is revealed.

Being trustworthy means aligning our actions with our words, fulfilling our promises and commitments, even when it’s inconvenient or challenging. It’s about being dependable and faithful, not just in grand gestures but in the small, everyday moments that build trust over time.

Remember, whether explicitly stated or not, people are always watching. Our actions, more than our words, define who we are and what we stand for. 

We must always be people whose whose actions consistently demonstrate that we are who we claim to be.

In a world where words are plentiful but genuine trustworthiness is rare, let us be the exception. Let our actions speak so loudly that our words become almost unnecessary.

I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking.

Wine and Wealth

Our wisdom for today comes from Proverbs 21:17.

“He who loves pleasure will become poor; the one who loves wine and oil will never be rich.”

This proverb is not about wine and oil. This verse is a powerful warning on the dangers of prioritizing pleasure over responsibility.

The love of pleasure, whether through indulgence in luxurious living, excessive partying, or constant pursuit of entertainment, can lead to financial ruin. The verse specifically mentions “wine and oil,” because they were symbols of wealth and indulgence in ancient times.

The message here is clear: while enjoying life’s pleasures is not inherently wrong, making them the center of one’s life can have dire consequences. The pursuit of pleasure often leads to neglect of more important duties such as work, saving, and investing wisely. When one’s resources are continually spent on fleeting pleasures, the result is often poverty.

Reflecting on this, we are reminded to assess our own lives. Are we investing our time and resources in ways that build a stable future, or are we chasing temporary pleasures that leave us empty? This verse is saying, “If you love having fun too much, you’ll end up poor; if you always want fancy things, you’ll never be wealthy.”

I’m Lonnie Davis and these are thoughts worth thinking.

Wisdom and Trouble

Today’s wisdom comes from Proverbs 22: verse 3.

“The prudent see danger and take cover, but the simple keep going and pay the penalty.” – –

This proverb is about being smart and careful. It tells us that wise people can spot trouble before it happens. They’re like weather forecasters who see storms coming.

But here’s the wisdom, wise people don’t just see danger, they do something about it. They protect themselves, like getting under a shelter when it’s about to rain.

On the other hand, some people aren’t so careful. The proverb calls them “simple.” These folks ignore warning signs and keep going, even when trouble’s ahead.

The lesson? It’s not enough to just see problems coming. We need to act to stay safe. It’s like seeing a “Wet Floor” sign. The smart move is to walk carefully or go another way, not to ignore it and risk falling.

Here’s another way to say it: “Smart people see trouble coming and avoid it, but foolish people keep going and end up in trouble.”

I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking.

Contentious Spouses

Our wisdom for today comes from Proverbs 25:24:

“Better to live on a corner of the roof than to share a house with a quarrelsome wife.”

At first glance, this proverb might seem like a jab at difficult spouses, particularly wives. However, such an interpretation misses the deeper wisdom it offers. Let’s peel back the layers to reveal its true essence.

Firstly, this wisdom applies equally to all relationships. A quarrelsome husband can be just as challenging to live with as a quarrelsome wife. But there is more.

Picture living on the corner of a roof – exposed, uncomfortable, and precarious. Now imagine preferring this to a spacious, comfortable house. What could make someone choose such discomfort? The answer: constant conflict.

This proverb isn’t about spouses at all. It’s about the value of peace. It’s telling us that a small, tranquil space is far more desirable than a grand house filled with strife. It’s a powerful reminder that harmony and respect are more precious than any material comfort.

In essence, this wisdom encourages us to prioritize peaceful relationships in all aspects of our lives. It’s urging us to reflect on what truly matters – is it the size of our house, or the quality of the relationships within it?

So, the next time you hear someone quoting this proverb as a joke about marriage, gently remind them of its true meaning. Better yet, offer this modern interpretation: “A peaceful spot on the rooftop beats a whole house full of drama.”

Whether we’re husbands, wives, children, colleagues, or friends, that’s a wisdom we can all “Amen.”

I’m Lonnie Davis and these are thoughts worth thinking.

Enough is Enough

Our wisdom today comes from Proverbs 25:16:

“If you find honey, eat just what you need, lest you have too much and vomit it up.”

This proverb, though simple, carries a profound message that’s challenging to follow in our modern world. Let’s paraphrase it: “When you encounter something sweet, enjoy it in moderation—excess can turn pleasure into pain.”

We live in a time of abundance, in a land overflowing with opportunities and comforts. It’s easy to lose sight of moderation when surrounded by such plenty.

You might think of the extravagant feasts described in biblical times—lavish banquets with abundant food and endless tables of delicacies, often leading to overindulgence. But let’s be honest, doesn’t that sound a lot like our modern all-you-can-eat buffets?

With this perspective, let’s revisit the proverb. “If you find honey,”—and indeed, we have. We’re surrounded by ‘sweetness’ in various forms. The wisdom lies in the next part: “Eat just what you need, lest you have too much and vomit it up.”

While excess can bring momentary joy, it often leads to long-term consequences.

In a world that constantly urges us to indulge, perhaps true wisdom lies in knowing when to say “enough.”

I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking.

Divine Delays

Our Scripture today is taken from the story of the Birth of John the Baptist. In Luke 1:13, his father-to-be, a priest, is serving in the Temple, and we read,

“But the angel said to him, ‘Do not be afraid, Zechariah, because your prayer has been heard. Your wife Elizabeth will bear you a son, and you are to give him the name John.'”

Gabriel tells Zechariah that he and his elderly wife, Elizabeth, will bear a son named John.

This passage illustrates two powerful themes:
First, the effectiveness of prayer.
Second, God’s perfect timing.

Despite their age, Zechariah and Elizabeth’s years of persistent prayer teach us to never give up on our requests to God. The angel’s words, “your prayer has been heard,” remind us that God listens, even when we feel He’s not responding.

Certainly, the couple probably hoped for a child earlier in life, but God’s plan unfolded at the perfect moment. This reminds us that God’s delays are not God’s denials. He may not answer immediately or as expected, but His timing is always perfect.

Have you prayed and thought God was saying “No”? It’s possible He’s saying “Not yet” or “Wait! I have something better.”

He will give you the right answer, at the right time.

I’m Lonnie Davis and these are thoughts worth thinking.

God Helps Us

Our text for today is Proverbs 23: verses 10 and 11.

“Do not move an ancient boundary stone or encroach on the fields of the fatherless, for their Redeemer is strong; He will take up their case against you.”

Have you heard the old saying, “God helps those who help themselves?”

That idea is in this verse, but more than that. It teaches that God especially helps those who cannot help themselves. Sometimes there are those who wrongfully wrong us and we are powerless to do anything. These verses say, “Don’t worry, God will take care of things.

Reflecting on this verse reminds us that even if someone appears to have no human defender, they are not without protection. The passage assures us that God Himself, their Redeemer, is their advocate. This emphasizes God’s strength and His commitment to justice.

I love the story about a mouse riding on the back of an elephant. They crossed a bridge, and the bridge shook and shook. On the other side, the mouse said, “Boy, we really shook that bridge.”

For those times when I can’t shake the bridge, God is there for me. As one man said, “When you have done everything you can do, that’s when God will step in and do what you can’t do.”

I’m Lonnie Davis and these are thoughts worth thinking.