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Our Proverb for today is Proverbs 14:17

“A quick-tempered person does foolish things.”

What do we mean by “quick-tempered?” 

Instead of quick-tempered, we use terms like: Hot-headed, grouchy, cranky, and mean. A more modern word we use is “triggered.” If you say something that someone doesn’t like, you have triggered them. Of course, that word means it is not the fault of the quick-tempered, hotheaded, screaming person. They have been triggered.

It sounds like God put a little switch on them and if you say the wrong thing, then that button gets triggered. A triggered person then flys off in a rage. 

Heaven help those who get into the path of the triggered person. A quick-tempered or triggered person does foolish things.

Over the years, I have heard people try to justify hot-headedness with “I just let it out and then I am over it.” 

So let me understand: You mean you open the door and throw fire into the room, and then you are okay? Everybody else can look out for themselves.

Let me give you two better responses.

First: Respond to hurts, but respond with kindness. If it works out then you have saved a relationship and maybe a soul.

Second: Choose not to remember wounds. One older lady was known for her kind life. When she was reminded of some offense against her. She responded with, “I don’t remember that. In fact, I specifically remember forgetting.” 

Forget offenses and do it on purpose.

I’m Lonnie Davis
And these are thoughts worth thinking,

Many Bible teachings do not come naturally to us.

Love your enemies.
Pray for those who persecute you.
Rejoice always.
Forgive as the Lord forgives you.
Do not judge.
If your enemy is hungry, feed him; 
If he is thirsty, give him a drink. 

Today’s text is in the same category as those commands.

It is Proverbs 24:17.

“Do not gloat when your enemy falls.
When they stumble, do not let your heart rejoice.”

For emphasis, let me read it again.

“Do not gloat when your enemy falls.
When they stumble, do not let your heart rejoice.”

That’s hard because sometimes that buzzard had it coming and I’m glad he got his payback.

When Bill Clinton was president, many Christians were troubled with his behavior in the White House. Jokes were flying all over the place. I stood in the pulpit and challenged the people not to rejoice in his failure, but rather pray for him. I admit to you that was hard. We do not rejoice at the evil that anyone does, but neither do we rejoice when hard things fall upon them.

We read all of those hard commands and wonder if we could ever do it. The answer is yes. If you think not, then ponder this question, “Do you believe that God ever commands us to do anything that we are not able to do?” The answer is no.

What God calls you to do, he enables you to do. If you fall, rise and try again. He will meet you in your effort.

I’m Lonnie Davis
And these are thoughts worth thinking. 

Our text for today is Proverbs 23:17.

“Do not let your heart envy sinners, but always be zealous for the fear of the LORD.”

This proverb is so serious that it must not be ignored. Unfortunately, it is all too often violated. Let me give you an example.

There is a good man who loves his children and loves God.
He is also a man (or a woman) who loves a sports hero or actor and praises them openly.
Sounds harmless, but hero worship of men or women can affect our standards for ethical behavior.”
One man put it this way, “Tell me who your heroes are, and I’ll tell you who you’ll turn out to be.” There is a danger of becoming like the people we admire. Certainly, that is a great motivation for us to love and admire Jesus.

For parents, there is another caution. If you praise and admire an athlete, actor, or whoever, and they are bad examples of how to live, what are you telling your impressionable children? These children love you and want you to admire them. Of course, they want to be like the person you admire.

I also like certain sports athletes, but there ought to be a difference between admiring one’s talents and admiring the person. We ought to be careful with that distinction.

Thinking about that, read the verse again: “Do not let your heart envy sinners, but always be zealous for the fear of the LORD.”

I’m Lonnie Davis
And these are thoughts worth thinking.

The proverbs for today is: Proverbs 15: verse 4

“A gentle tongue is a tree of life, but perverseness in it breaks the spirit.”

Let me explain this verse by telling a story.
Last week, my granddaughter sent me a note thanking me for allowing her to stay “in my place.” She started off with, “Thank you so much for letting us stay at your beautiful place…”

There were a lot of other things she said, but I will sum them up for you. She told me what she did in leaving, but what it all meant was, “I left things better than I found them.” It was great when she got there, but it was better when she left.

That is the meaning of this verse: not about places but about what we say to others and how they are after we leave them. When we meet people and interact with them, we make things better for them. We give them words of comfort, encouragement, kindness, hope, gratitude, love, healing, and faith.

We do all of this because when we meet them, we choose to build up and leave them better.

Make the world and those whom you meet better because you were there.

I’m Lonnie Davis
And these are thoughts worth thinking.

Today’s Proverb is Chapter 26:verses 4 and 5.

“Do not answer a fool according to his folly, or you yourself will be like him.
Answer a fool according to his folly, lest he become wise in his own eyes.”

This may be the most confusing Proverb that Solomon ever spoke. Is he saying
“Do not answer a fool according to his folly,” or is he saying, “Answer a fool according to his folly?”

These thoughts do not actually contradict each other, but rather provide complementary wisdom.

We will have discussions and disagreements, but when you do:
Verse four says, do not argue with someone who will not even consider what he is being taught. To do so is to make yourself just like him. You will both look like a fool. It is fruitless.
Verse five is telling us that when someone makes an argument that is wrong, answer them, else they may go their way and think they made some wise statement and never know there is another side. Answer but don’t nag and fuss.

When a hard-headed person just wants to argue, don’t argue with them. It will just turn into fussing.
When someone makes an ignorant statement, discuss it kindly lest they fail to consider the truth.

To close, I’ll use the words of Galatians 6: verse 1, “If a man is overtaken in any trespass, you who are spiritual restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness, considering yourself lest you also be tempted.”

Whatever you discuss, do it in a spirit of gentleness.

I’m Lonnie Davis,
And these are thoughts worth thinking.

The Scripture for today is Proverbs 23:7

“As a man thinks in his heart, so is he.”

In 1972, a psychologist named Daryl Ben, identified a theory he called the “Self-Perception Theory.” The individuals in his test group would do well or mess up and keep telling themselves that they are just that way; that is just who they are. They might say, “I’m a good student, or I’m just a poor test taker, I’m just an idiot, I’m a failure or I am a terrible cook.” Soon, this self-identity became a reality in their lives.

If I had been involved in that study, I would not have called it the “Self-Perception Theory.” I would have called it “The Law of Proverbs 23:7.” Psychologists have theories. God has statements of fact, rules and laws.

When Israel left Egypt, they came to the Promised Land, but wanted to make sure they could win any battle. They sent spies to check out the land. After 40 days, they returned with their report. “But the men who had gone up with him replied, “We cannot go up against the people, for they are stronger than we are!” They explained why, “We even saw the people of the land. We seemed like grasshoppers in our own sight, and we must have seemed the same to them!” (Numbers 13: verses 31 and 33.)

The amazing part of this story is that God had already given them the land. Because they felt in their hearts that they couldn’t take it, it cost them 40 more years of wandering.

Indeed, as you think within your heart, so are you.

I’m Lonnie Davis
And these are thoughts worth thinking.

Proverbs 3:5

Our Scripture for today is Proverbs 3:5.

 “Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding.”

This passage reminds me of the old farmer who, with his wife, attended a county fair. At the fair was a helicopter. The pilot asked the man to take a ride. After he hem-hawed, he finally agreed. Fifteen minutes later, the flight was over and the pilot asked the farmer what he thought about the flight. The farmer answered, “Well, to tell you the truth, I never did put my full weight on it.”

Many people trust God in exactly the same way. They go along for the ride, but never do put their whole weight on Him.

This proverb tells us what it means to trust God. To trust God means (1) to trust with all your heart and (2) to lean not on your own understanding. 

We all know the story of Noah and the ark, but have you thought about how he showed he trusted God? He built an ark to escape a flood that no one had ever seen. His neighbors must have thought him crazy, as he worked on the giant boat for up to 120 years and no sign of rain or water appeared. Though he hadn’t seen the rain, God said it and that was good enough for him. Of course, the rain eventually came.

Those who trust God and lean not on their own understanding, seek first to know what God wants and then obey. 

They put their whole weight on the plane. They know there is no other way to trust God.

I’m Lonnie Davis

And these are thoughts worth thinking.

In today’s reflection, we read Proverbs 13:12, 

“Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but desire fulfilled is a tree of life,” 

This story reminds us of the story of Zachariah and Elizabeth, as recounted in Luke 1. They longed for a child and prayed earnestly, yet years passed with their hopes unmet.

One day, while serving in the temple, Zachariah encountered an angel who brought the unexpected news that Elizabeth would bear a son.

Obviously, Zechariah and Elizabeth had prayed for a son years earlier, but there had been no baby to come into their lives. Zechariah said, “I am an old man, and my wife is well along in years.” They had waited year after year until they were heartbroken, disillusioned, and finally had given up.

Today, we know that son as John the Baptist. Their prolonged wait was a journey through the heartache of deferred hope, but it concluded with the immense joy of a fulfilled desire.

Years ago, my 12-year-old daughter, Janet, and I took a Christmas shopping trip. She spotted a toy she desired and asked for it. Knowing I had already purchased it, I said, “We’ll see.” Her dejected response was, “I know what that means. It means no.” I answered that with, “Honey, you have to be more positive than that.” She said, “I am positive that means no.’

A delayed answer feels like a denial or as the Bible says, “hope deferred makes the heart sick.”

Zachariah and Elizabeth’s story reminds us that our timing doesn’t always coincide with God’s. Our prayers may seem unanswered in our moments of impatience, but they are not unheard. God’s responses to our prayers—whether a “no,” a “yes,” or a “wait”—are all part of a greater plan, teaching us patience and trust.

I’m Lonnie Davis.
And these are thoughts worth thinking.

Our Scripture for today is Proverbs 14:12.

“There is a way that appears to be right, but in the end it leads to death.”

“How many legs does a calf have, if you count his tail as a leg?”

Abraham Lincoln once asked his opponent this question. His answer was five. Lincoln corrected him with the answer of four. He said, “Saying that a tail is a leg doesn’t make it a leg.”

Today’s proverb made me think of that old story, because we too often assume a thing to be so, when it is not. Sometimes bad thinking brings no bad results. Sometimes, when we think something is right but it is not, it ends badly.

For example, when the Titanic set sail in 1912, its builders believed it to be “unsinkable.” This belief was not blind but based on state-of-the-art safety features and advanced design. The builders were so confident that they did not even provide enough lifeboats for those who set sail.

You know what happened. The Titanic struck an iceberg, and more than 1,500 people lost their lives in the disaster. 

From this proverb, there are four great lessons for our hearts.

1. We must be cautious of our own ways. Seek advice.
2. Deceptive paths can look appealing: The proverb says It “appears” to be right.
3. Don’t trust appearances, look deeper. Sometimes, we want something so badly that we see things that are not there.
4. Examine your choices: Once you have made a decision, take one final look.

Lonnie Davis

We all grew up learning proverbs. Maybe they are just wise sayings from your parents, but you have heard them. Have you heard any of these?

The early bird gets the worm.
Don’t put all your eggs in one basket.
A stitch in time saves nine.
Better safe than sorry.
Actions speak louder than words.
Two heads are better than one.

Most of these come from the wisdom of the crowd. They are things that everybody says and don’t know where they came from. 

What if you could talk to the wisest man who ever lived and ask him to share some great proverbs with you?

According to 1 Kings 3, the wisest man who ever lived was Solomon.

God told him, “I will give you a wise and discerning heart, so that there has never been nor will ever be another like you.” (1 Kings 3:12).

Solomon had 3,000 proverbs. He listed some of them in the book of Proverbs.

I wish we had all of them, but I am thankful for the few we do have. Over the past few weeks and in the coming weeks, we have read and will continue to read some of his proverbs. Knowing them and having them at our command will give us wisdom too.

For today, let’s read Proverbs 13:20,

“Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm.”

In other words, the people we associate with influence our behavior, so choose your friends carefully.

One modern writer said, “Today I have grown taller by walking among the trees.” I’ll bet he didn’t know he got that from Solomon.

I’m Lonnie Davis
And these are thoughts worth thinking.

Today’s Scripture is Proverbs 24:10.

“If you falter in a time of trouble, how small is your strength!”

I often have heard people excuse their rage, or depression, or whatever, by saying,

I don’t usually:
Get angry, but this was just too much.
Scream at others, but she wears me out
Lose it, but I couldn’t help it this time.

Today’s proverb calls all of that baloney. 

You are what you are when you face a hard time. When you squeeze an orange, orange juice comes out. When you squeeze a lemon, lemon juice comes out. You are what you are when times are hard, when you are in the middle of the squeeze.

What do people get from you when you are squeezed? That is what you are. Not some hypothetical of how I would act if, but rather what you actually did..

I knew a man who lost a great deal of money and explained to his bride. “I guess God thought I wasn’t ready to handle it yet.”

God says, “If you faint in the day of adversity, your strength is small.” 

When times are hard, we are stripped of the distractions and comforts that can mask our true selves. In a squeeze, we are forced to rely on our core values, beliefs, and coping mechanisms. It is in these moments that we see what we are truly made of and what truly matters to us. Our actions and reactions under pressure reveal our priorities, our resilience, and our moral fiber.

I’m Lonnie Davis

And these are thoughts worth thinking.

Our Proverb today is Proverbs 11:3.

“The integrity of the upright guides them, but the perversity of the faithless destroys them.“

To better understand this proverb, let me give you an example from history.

In 1939, the Nazis were invading the Netherlands. The first people to be affected were the Jews who lived in the Netherlands. A group of Christians came to the Dutch theologian Henry Cramer and told him, “Our Jewish neighbors are missing from their homes.” They then asked, “What must we do?”

 Cramer answered, “I cannot tell you what to do. I can tell you who you are. If you know who you are, then you will know what to do.”

 Read those last words again, “If you know who you are, then you will know what to do.” The Nazis are not marching in our streets, but those words should still convict us. When Satan sends temptations, you do not need to ask what to do. You only need to remember who you are.

 Sometimes, you are confronted with a temptation. It sounds holy and righteous to say, “I will pray to God for an answer about what I should do.” It is not holy and righteous. God has already told us what to do with sin. We only need to remember who we are and what we are.

Remember, “The integrity of the upright guides” us.

I’m Lonnie Davis
And these are thoughts worth thinking.

Our Scripture for today is Proverbs 20:11.

“Even a young man is known by his actions, whether his activity is pure and whether it is right.”

This verse is not just about a young man; it is about all of us. Even as adults, our actions reveal who we really are. Our behavior, whether pure and upright or not, is a clear indicator of the state of our character. 

As mature individuals, we have a responsibility to ensure that what we do aligns with what we believe. After all, it is not enough to simply claim to be righteous – we must live it out in our daily lives. The Lord sees all, and He will ultimately judge each person according to their deeds.

Someone pointed out that we often judge others by what they do and judge ourselves by what we meant to do. That makes leaves us with bad habits and few friends. Our habits are bad because we don’t really see what we did wrong. We have no friends because we have judged them all. 

My favorite quote from Maya Angelou puts it this way. “When people show you who they are, believe them the first time.” We might change it just a bit to point to ourselves. When our actions show us who WE are, believe them. It is only by believing what we see in our selves, that we can really work on making things better.

I’m Lonnie Davis

And these are thoughts worth thinking.

Proverbs 21:5: “The plans of the diligent lead surely to abundance, but everyone who is hasty comes only to poverty.”

My friend has been Mayor of his Texas town for 19 years. He is running because he has an opponent. The strange thing is this opponent has never served before. Well, I guess that is okay, but he has never attended meetings or done anything for the city. It reminds me of the joke I used to tell about how I tried to join the army, but it turned out they don’t need any more Generals right now. Don’t be that way. “Hasty comes only to poverty.”

Remember the story of David and the Giant. He told King Saul that he would fight the giant. Saul’s response was, “You are not able to go out against this Philistine and fight him; you are only a boy, and he has been a fighting man from his youth.” (1 Samuel 17:33)

I might have agreed, but David had a ready response. 

“Your servant was tending his father’s sheep. When a lion or a bear came and took a lamb from the flock, I went out after him and attacked him, and rescued it from his mouth; and when he rose up against me, I seized him by his beard and struck him and killed him.” (34-35)

 David believed that he could kill the giant because, with God’s help, he had already killed a bear and a lion. There is a great principle here – one victory grows to another. 

Before you can kill a giant, kill a bear. Before you kill a bear, kill a wolf. Before you kill a wolf, kill a mouse. If you cannot kill a mouse, you are not ready to fight a giant. Victories grow little by little.

 Learn to win the little victories, and then when a big battle confronts you, you will be ready. When you get ready, God will be waiting for you.

 I’m Lonnie Davis,

These are thoughts worth thinking.

Our proverb for today is Proverbs 26:24–25.

“A hateful man disguises himself with his speech, but he lays up deceit in his heart. When he speaks graciously, do not believe him.”

When caught in a half-truth, a deception, people might say, “Well, technically, it is not a lie.” Maybe we need to define a lie; a lie is an untruth spoken or implied in order to deceive. 

Keeping that in mind, here is one of the more famous “half-truths.” 

In Genesis 12, When he is around the Pharaoh, Abraham refers to his wife Sarah as his sister. He does the same thing in Genesis 20 to another king.. 

While Sarah was indeed Abraham’s half-sister, Abraham’s statement was a half-truth intended to deceive others. This half-truth leads to great pain for others and shame for himself. Lies usually do. 

There can be a bit of Abraham’s deception in us all. People will say, ”I was just joking,” as a method of covering up a mean-spirited comment. Others will say, “Everyone is saying.” No, they are not. Maybe a couple of people said it, or maybe only you said it.

Often, the half-lie or deception is not used to influence you but is one you tell yourself. We say, “I had no other choice,” to justify a decision or action that actually had alternatives. We even say or tell ourselves, “I did my best,” when we know it isn’t true.

Being honest with ourselves is always helpful. Anything else is simply deceit.

I’m Lonnie Davis

These are thoughts worth thinking.

Our text for today is Proverbs 16: verse 9.

“A man’s heart plans his course, but the LORD determines his steps.”

We begin by reading the best example of this verse.

“At that time Jesus went with His disciples to a place called Gethsemane…Going a little farther, He fell facedown and prayed, “My Father, if it is possible, let this cup pass from Me. Yet not as I will, but as You will.”

Jesus did not want to die on the cross. He asked the Father to let it pass. After this request, he acknowledges that His Father knows best and determines his steps. He prays, “Yet not as I will, but as You will.”

Years ago, a friend was trying to get a preaching job in Texas. He tried, but the doors kept closing. He prayed for God’s help, but nothing happened. Finally, he prayed and told God that he would go anywhere. Almost immediately, a work opened up that was a thousand miles away. He spent more than 20 years in that work and had the greatest work of his life.

In whatever you do, pray, “Yet not as I will, but Your will be done.”

Why? Because, as our proverb says, “the Lord determines our steps.” He knows best.

I’m Lonnie Davis
And these are thoughts worth thinking.

Our Scripture today is Proverbs 15:3.

“The eyes of the LORD are in every place, observing the evil and the good.”

Sometimes, we treat this verse like a threat. Some may feel like God is spying on us. When you think that way, I remind you that there is great comfort in the all-seeing eye of the LORD.

Here is a story that explains what I mean. My brother was big and strong. I confess that I always felt safer when he was with me. I was not a little kid, but still, his presence made me even safer. We never had to fight anyone, but I knew he was there to help me.
I remember a time when a man came speeding down our street. It was a neighborhood with children, so I hollered at him to slow down. He went about 100 yards down the road, hit his brakes, and then headed back toward me. I walked out to the edge of the street. My brother came with me, and we stood there. The speeder came by and never slowed down. As he zoomed past, I remarked, “He is a coward who would not even stop.” My brother responded, “Would you have with two big men like us standing there?” Good point!

God is not my brother, but he is my Father, and he sees me when the world is a dangerous place. He is standing beside me.

“The eyes of the Lord are in everyplace.”

I’m Lonnie Davis
And these are thoughts worth thinking.

Todays proverb is found in Proverbs 18:17
“The first to state his case seems right
until another comes and cross-examines him.”

I admit that I love the Amazon review. I often take my phone with me when I go to a store to buy a product. I don’t ask the salespeople for their opinion because they often give only one side of the story, and it is what they have been told to say. While standing in the store, I look up the product on Amazon because the reviews there will have hundreds or thousands of opinions. Of course, I never believe the first opinion. I read others before I buy the product. Unfortunately, companies sometimes post fake reviews, and even some real legitimate reviews are wrong, with both pros and cons.

If they might be fake or wrong, why do I do this? Because getting MANY other views is helpful.No one believes this is not so.

The idea of listening to only one opinion is so powerful in marketing that most of you have been offered free stuff, hotel nights, money, passes or whatever, if you will just come and listen to a sales presentation for a few hours. It works!
If you understand today’s proverb, you will not be trapped in this way.

By the way, if I look up a product and it has only one review, I consider the one opinion to be unhelpful in making a decision.

After all, that is the meaning of today’s proverb.
“The first to state his case seems right until another comes and cross-examines him.”

I’m Lonnie Davis
And these are thoughts worth thinking.

Our text today is Proverbs 18:13
“He who answers a matter before he hears it—
this is folly and disgrace to him.”

I’m going to confess that I really struggle with this passage. Sometimes, I don’t hear things because I am thinking about my reply. Do you ever do that? It is a bad habit.

Someone once noted that God gave us two ears and one mouth because he wants us to listen twice as much as we talk. Indeed, this is an easier task for some than for others. I would say that it is easier for one gender than for the other, but I have seen people on both sides of the gender line face that same problem. (And yes, I still believe in two genders.)

I told my family about the time I was at a men’s breakfast. I told a really good joke and everyone started laughing. Just as they started to laugh, one of the other men spoke up, “Let me tell you a joke I heard.” He didn’t give people enough time to enjoy my joke. In the middle of telling his joke, one of the other men spoke up, “Hurry up and finish your joke. I have one I want to tell.”

As you can see, answering before we hear the whole issue is a very old problem and a foolish thing to do. It can bring shame. You may get away with it for a while, but eventually, it will bite you.

Lonnie Davis

One of my favorite proverbs is Proverbs 24:16:

“Though a righteous man falls seven times, he rises again, but the wicked are brought down by calamity.”

Notice from this text that both the righteous and evil man falls, the difference between the righteous and evil is whether they get up from their fall. The righteous man, the good man falls down but gets up. The wicked man falls down and just wallows in his failure.

Consider the stories of Peter and Judas.

Peter failed. He bragged that he would never deny Jesus, but before the next morning he had denied Jesus three times. He even took an oath before the enemies of Jesus that he did not know Jesus. Feeling his failure, he wept bitterly. Jesus forgave him and a few days later Peter preached the first gospel sermon.

Judas failed. He betrayed Jesus for money – thirty pieces of silver. He regretted his act of betrayal and tried to return the money. When he could not, he hanged himself. Now let’s read that verse again:

“Though a righteous man (Peter) falls seven times, he rises again, but the wicked (Judas) are brought down by calamity.”

If you are righteous, you will fall, get up, and try again.
Or maybe try another way.
You will not quit!
But if you are wicked, you will fail and quit.

Lonnie Davis.