The Secret of Being Alone

At some time in our lives, we all feel alone.

Nearing the end of Jesus’s earthly life, He told his disciples, “you will leave me all alone.”

Jesus knew that the time of his arrest, trial, and crucifixion was nearing. Jesus also knew that those closest to him would run.

So where do you get the strength to hold on when there is no one there to hold?

Jesus knew the great secret of being alone. Listen to the way he explained it in John 16, verse 32.

“An hour is coming, and has already come, when you will be scattered, each to his own home, and you will leave Me all alone…”

He then told them the secret of being alone: “Yet I am not alone, because the Father is with Me.”

Jesus knew that when everything is against you, when your cross is near, when even those closest to you desert you, even then. You are never alone.

No, because the father is with you.

I’m Lonnie Davis and these are thoughts worth thinking.

Shiny Things or Wisdom

Our wisdom for today is Proverbs 20:15:

“There is an abundance of gold and rubies, but lips of knowledge are a rare treasure.”

In today’s world, it’s easy to find wealthy neighborhoods. Drive through certain areas, and you’ll see million-dollar homes and luxury cars. The United States alone boasts over 22 million millionaires. Material wealth is visibly abundant and easily recognizable.

However, wisdom is not as readily apparent. You can’t drive through a neighborhood and pinpoint who possesses true knowledge and understanding. Unlike wealth, which can be displayed through physical possessions, wisdom is an intangible quality. It resides within and reveals itself through thoughtful words and actions.

Proverbs 20:15 reminds us that gold and rubies are valuable, but true wisdom is rarer and more precious. Lips that speak wisdom are a treasure because they offer guidance, insight, and understanding that material wealth cannot provide.

Shiny things are everywhere, but only wisdom makes a lasting impact.

I’m Lonnie Davis and these are thoughts worth thinking.

Actions Speak Louder

Our wisdom for today is found in Proverbs 20:6.

“Many a man proclaims his loving devotion, but who can find a trustworthy man?”

This profound verse echoes Maya Angelou’s famous quote: “When people show you who they are, believe them the first time.” Both sentiments underscore a crucial life lesson: actions speak louder than words.

We often encounter people who boast about their loyalty and good intentions. However, words alone cannot measure one’s character. It is through consistent, reliable actions that character is revealed.

Being trustworthy means aligning our actions with our words, fulfilling our promises and commitments, even when it’s inconvenient or challenging. It’s about being dependable and faithful, not just in grand gestures but in the small, everyday moments that build trust over time.

Remember, whether explicitly stated or not, people are always watching. Our actions, more than our words, define who we are and what we stand for. 

We must always be people whose whose actions consistently demonstrate that we are who we claim to be.

In a world where words are plentiful but genuine trustworthiness is rare, let us be the exception. Let our actions speak so loudly that our words become almost unnecessary.

I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking.

Wine and Wealth

Our wisdom for today comes from Proverbs 21:17.

“He who loves pleasure will become poor; the one who loves wine and oil will never be rich.”

This proverb is not about wine and oil. This verse is a powerful warning on the dangers of prioritizing pleasure over responsibility.

The love of pleasure, whether through indulgence in luxurious living, excessive partying, or constant pursuit of entertainment, can lead to financial ruin. The verse specifically mentions “wine and oil,” because they were symbols of wealth and indulgence in ancient times.

The message here is clear: while enjoying life’s pleasures is not inherently wrong, making them the center of one’s life can have dire consequences. The pursuit of pleasure often leads to neglect of more important duties such as work, saving, and investing wisely. When one’s resources are continually spent on fleeting pleasures, the result is often poverty.

Reflecting on this, we are reminded to assess our own lives. Are we investing our time and resources in ways that build a stable future, or are we chasing temporary pleasures that leave us empty? This verse is saying, “If you love having fun too much, you’ll end up poor; if you always want fancy things, you’ll never be wealthy.”

I’m Lonnie Davis and these are thoughts worth thinking.

Wisdom and Trouble

Today’s wisdom comes from Proverbs 22: verse 3.

“The prudent see danger and take cover, but the simple keep going and pay the penalty.” – –

This proverb is about being smart and careful. It tells us that wise people can spot trouble before it happens. They’re like weather forecasters who see storms coming.

But here’s the wisdom, wise people don’t just see danger, they do something about it. They protect themselves, like getting under a shelter when it’s about to rain.

On the other hand, some people aren’t so careful. The proverb calls them “simple.” These folks ignore warning signs and keep going, even when trouble’s ahead.

The lesson? It’s not enough to just see problems coming. We need to act to stay safe. It’s like seeing a “Wet Floor” sign. The smart move is to walk carefully or go another way, not to ignore it and risk falling.

Here’s another way to say it: “Smart people see trouble coming and avoid it, but foolish people keep going and end up in trouble.”

I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking.

Contentious Spouses

Our wisdom for today comes from Proverbs 25:24:

“Better to live on a corner of the roof than to share a house with a quarrelsome wife.”

At first glance, this proverb might seem like a jab at difficult spouses, particularly wives. However, such an interpretation misses the deeper wisdom it offers. Let’s peel back the layers to reveal its true essence.

Firstly, this wisdom applies equally to all relationships. A quarrelsome husband can be just as challenging to live with as a quarrelsome wife. But there is more.

Picture living on the corner of a roof – exposed, uncomfortable, and precarious. Now imagine preferring this to a spacious, comfortable house. What could make someone choose such discomfort? The answer: constant conflict.

This proverb isn’t about spouses at all. It’s about the value of peace. It’s telling us that a small, tranquil space is far more desirable than a grand house filled with strife. It’s a powerful reminder that harmony and respect are more precious than any material comfort.

In essence, this wisdom encourages us to prioritize peaceful relationships in all aspects of our lives. It’s urging us to reflect on what truly matters – is it the size of our house, or the quality of the relationships within it?

So, the next time you hear someone quoting this proverb as a joke about marriage, gently remind them of its true meaning. Better yet, offer this modern interpretation: “A peaceful spot on the rooftop beats a whole house full of drama.”

Whether we’re husbands, wives, children, colleagues, or friends, that’s a wisdom we can all “Amen.”

I’m Lonnie Davis and these are thoughts worth thinking.

Enough is Enough

Our wisdom today comes from Proverbs 25:16:

“If you find honey, eat just what you need, lest you have too much and vomit it up.”

This proverb, though simple, carries a profound message that’s challenging to follow in our modern world. Let’s paraphrase it: “When you encounter something sweet, enjoy it in moderation—excess can turn pleasure into pain.”

We live in a time of abundance, in a land overflowing with opportunities and comforts. It’s easy to lose sight of moderation when surrounded by such plenty.

You might think of the extravagant feasts described in biblical times—lavish banquets with abundant food and endless tables of delicacies, often leading to overindulgence. But let’s be honest, doesn’t that sound a lot like our modern all-you-can-eat buffets?

With this perspective, let’s revisit the proverb. “If you find honey,”—and indeed, we have. We’re surrounded by ‘sweetness’ in various forms. The wisdom lies in the next part: “Eat just what you need, lest you have too much and vomit it up.”

While excess can bring momentary joy, it often leads to long-term consequences.

In a world that constantly urges us to indulge, perhaps true wisdom lies in knowing when to say “enough.”

I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking.

Divine Delays

Our Scripture today is taken from the story of the Birth of John the Baptist. In Luke 1:13, his father-to-be, a priest, is serving in the Temple, and we read,

“But the angel said to him, ‘Do not be afraid, Zechariah, because your prayer has been heard. Your wife Elizabeth will bear you a son, and you are to give him the name John.'”

Gabriel tells Zechariah that he and his elderly wife, Elizabeth, will bear a son named John.

This passage illustrates two powerful themes:
First, the effectiveness of prayer.
Second, God’s perfect timing.

Despite their age, Zechariah and Elizabeth’s years of persistent prayer teach us to never give up on our requests to God. The angel’s words, “your prayer has been heard,” remind us that God listens, even when we feel He’s not responding.

Certainly, the couple probably hoped for a child earlier in life, but God’s plan unfolded at the perfect moment. This reminds us that God’s delays are not God’s denials. He may not answer immediately or as expected, but His timing is always perfect.

Have you prayed and thought God was saying “No”? It’s possible He’s saying “Not yet” or “Wait! I have something better.”

He will give you the right answer, at the right time.

I’m Lonnie Davis and these are thoughts worth thinking.

God Helps Us

Our text for today is Proverbs 23: verses 10 and 11.

“Do not move an ancient boundary stone or encroach on the fields of the fatherless, for their Redeemer is strong; He will take up their case against you.”

Have you heard the old saying, “God helps those who help themselves?”

That idea is in this verse, but more than that. It teaches that God especially helps those who cannot help themselves. Sometimes there are those who wrongfully wrong us and we are powerless to do anything. These verses say, “Don’t worry, God will take care of things.

Reflecting on this verse reminds us that even if someone appears to have no human defender, they are not without protection. The passage assures us that God Himself, their Redeemer, is their advocate. This emphasizes God’s strength and His commitment to justice.

I love the story about a mouse riding on the back of an elephant. They crossed a bridge, and the bridge shook and shook. On the other side, the mouse said, “Boy, we really shook that bridge.”

For those times when I can’t shake the bridge, God is there for me. As one man said, “When you have done everything you can do, that’s when God will step in and do what you can’t do.”

I’m Lonnie Davis and these are thoughts worth thinking.

Accepting Commands

Our wisdom for today is in Proverbs 10: verse 8.

“The wise in heart accept commandments, but a babbling fool will come to ruin.”

I love Philip’s story. God told him to go to a desert road and he went. There was no “I have a person for you to talk to,” or “there you will lead someone to Christ.” Later, of course, God did give him the opportunity to tell someone about God, but when the command came, it was a “just do it” thing. Just go!

Even though it was an 80-mile walk, he went as God commanded. Sometimes being a follower of God means doing what we do not understand. This was one of those times. Contained in this story is the real secret to being a great Christian. The secret? Whatever God wants you to do, just do it!

 Philip did not question God’s wisdom. He knew that God knew what He was doing. Too many times, when God touches our lives with 80 miles of our own hard journey, we question God and grumble about the hard spot God has put us in. Not so with Philip. He was wise in heart and just accepted the command.

 He knew God’s hand was in the journey. By the way, God’s hand is also in your journey.

I’m Lonnie Davis and these are thoughts worth thinking.

I Promise! Really?

Ecclesiastes 5:4-5 

“When you make a vow to God, do not delay in fulfilling it. He has no pleasure in fools; fulfill your vow. It is better not to make a vow than to make one and not fulfill it.”

To put it in other words,

“Don’t be slow to keep your promise to God. God has no use for people who don’t deliver. If you can’t keep a promise, don’t make one in the first place.”

Let’s dig Deeper.

The message is clear: we must think hard before making any commitments. This involves carefully considering the consequences, seeking wise counsel, and being realistic about what we can truly deliver. By taking these steps, we can avoid the pitfalls of making rash promises and the regret that follows when we fail to keep them. Thoughtfulness and integrity in our commitments help us maintain trust and strengthen our relationships.

This is especially important with promises we make to God!

Final Quote:

“We must not promise what we ought not, lest we be called on to perform what we can not.” – Abraham Lincoln

I’m Lonnie Davis and these are thoughts worth thinking.

Prepare Yourself!

Our text for today is Proverbs 20:4

“The sluggard will not plow by reason of the cold; therefore shall he beg in harvest, and have nothing.”

This ancient proverb encapsulates a timeless truth about the relationship between short-term discomfort and long-term rewards. It paints a vivid picture of a lazy individual who avoids work due to temporary inconvenience, only to face dire consequences later. The verse serves as a powerful reminder that success often requires enduring temporary hardships.

As Beverly Sills wisely stated, “There are no shortcuts to any place worth going.” This quote perfectly aligns with the proverb’s message, emphasizing that meaningful achievements require effort and perseverance. The cold weather in the proverb symbolizes the challenges we face on the path to success. Those who shy away from these difficulties often find themselves unprepared and empty-handed when opportunities arise.

The lesson that short-term discomfort often leads to long-term rewards is a crucial life lesson. It encourages us to push through immediate obstacles, knowing that our efforts will bear fruit in due time. This truth applies not only to agriculture but to various aspects of life, including education, career, relationships, and personal growth. By embracing temporary discomfort and putting in the necessary work, we set ourselves up for future abundance and success.

I’m Lonnie Davis and these are thoughts worth thinking.

Hasty Promises

Our text today is Proverbs 20:25.

“It is a trap for a man to dedicate something rashly, only later to reconsider his vows.”

This verse warns us against making hasty decisions and vows, highlighting the danger of regretting them later. This advice is particularly relevant in a world where we are often pressured to commit quickly without fully understanding the consequences.

George Washington’s quote, “It is better to offer no excuse than a bad one,” aligns perfectly with this scriptural insight. Both the proverb and the quote stress the importance of thoughtfulness and integrity in our promises. When we consider the consequences of our commitments, we demonstrate respect for ourselves and for those to whom we make these promises. Rash decisions often lead to broken promises, which can damage relationships and erode trust.

The lesson here is clear: we must think carefully before making any commitment. This means taking the time to weigh the implications, seeking guidance, and being honest about our capabilities. By doing so, we can avoid the trap of hasty vows and the subsequent need to find excuses for failing to keep them.

I’m Lonnie Davis and these are thoughts worth thinking.

Overlooking Insults

Our wisdom for today comes from Proverbs 19:11:

“A man’s insight gives him patience, and his virtue is to overlook an offense.”

Have you ever wished for more patience? According to this proverb, patience comes from wisdom. To put it bluntly, wise people are patient people. It is a good thing to overlook someone’s insult.

Some one else put it this way, “A wise person is patient and it is a good thing to forgive others and not stay angry.”

Once one of my grown children was fretting about an insult that someone said behind her back. I was glad to share Ecclesiastes 7:21-22 with her.
“Do not pay attention to every word people say, or you may hear your servant cursing you. For you know in your heart that many times you yourself have cursed others.”

This verse calls us not to be overly sensitive to what others say, as we too have spoken negatively at times. It’s a call to overlook minor offenses and avoid unnecessary hurt.

Gandhi captured this concept well: “The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.” True strength lies in the ability to forgive and to let go of anger.

I’m Lonnie Davis 
And these are thoughts worth thinking.

Finger Pointing

Finger-Pointing

Our wisdom for today comes from Proverbs 19: verse 3.

“A man’s own folly subverts his way, yet his heart rages against the LORD.”

I especially want you to notice two great lessons from this verse. 

First, It teaches us to own our own actions. 

When my children were in school and one of them came home with a bad grade, I would ask why. What bothered me most was when they blamed someone else, even the teacher. The problem is that if it is not my fault, then I can’t fix it. 

When things go wrong, it’s often because of our own mistakes. Instead of pointing fingers, we need to take responsibility for our actions. Think of it as steering your own ship; if it veers off course, you need to adjust the sails, not blame the wind.

Second, It teaches us to avoid blaming others.

When things go wrong, as they sometimes will, our first response can be to look for someone to blame. Sometimes, we even blame God. If I were only smarter, stronger, or better looking, then things would be better. Did you ever wonder if you are given your unique talents because that is what God knew you needed?

Let me leave you with this quote from Henry Ford, ”Don’t find fault, find a remedy; anybody can complain.”

I’m Lonnie Davis And These Are Thoughts Worth Thinking.

Passion is Not Enough

Our wisdom for today is taken from Proverbs 19:2.
“Even zeal is no good without knowledge, and he who hurries his footsteps misses the mark.”

Passion is a powerful force, capable of driving great change and inspiring others. However, as Proverbs 19 reminds us, enthusiasm or zeal without knowledge can lead us astray. This truth is powerfully illustrated in the story of Moses and the Egyptian. Witnessing injustice, Moses acted on his passionate impulse to defend the oppressed. Yet his zeal, unchecked by wisdom, resulted in a hasty action with painful consequences.

Like a car without a skilled driver, our passions need the guidance of knowledge to reach their full potential. Moses’ experience teaches us that even well-intentioned actions, when not tempered by understanding, can lead to terrible outcomes. To truly make a lasting impact, we must harness our enthusiasm with the compass of wisdom, allowing our zeal to be directed by knowledge and discernment.

Imagine how different our lives could be if we paused to seek understanding before acting on our impulses. By allowing wisdom to guide our passions, we can ensure that our efforts lead to positive and lasting change.

I’m Lonnie Davis and these are thoughts worth thinking.

Lessons from Pain

Our wisdom for today is taken from Proverbs 15:10.

“Discipline is harsh for him who leaves the path; he who hates correction will die.”

Here is a quick paraphrase of this verse: “Do the wrong thing, face the tough consequences; despise correction, face disaster.”


Discipline often feels uncomfortable, maybe even painful, but it’s essential to see it as a wise friend. Think of discipline as a guide that sometimes uses stern measures to steer us back to a better path. It’s not about punishment; it’s about protection and guidance. Embracing discipline means accepting that sometimes we need correction to grow and stay on the right track.


John Wooden, a 12-time national champion coach, wisely said, “Discipline yourself, and others won’t need to.” This highlights the value of self-discipline, which prevents the need for external correction. By embracing discipline, we open ourselves to growth and wisdom and may avoid the severe consequences of ignoring guidance. Remember, discipline is not an enemy but a friend helping us navigate life’s journey.


My own favorite quote about pain and discipline is, “No pain is wasted, as long as we learn the lesson from the pain.”


I’m Lonnie Davis and these are thoughts worth thinking.

Proverbs 11:10 – Joy

Our wisdom for today is taken from Proverbs 11:10

“When the righteous prosper, the city rejoices; when the wicked perish, there is jubilation.”

I think this verse is related to the famous statement, “People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”

This proverb reveals a profound truth about human nature and social dynamics. It tells us that the character of individuals significantly impacts the emotional climate of their community. The righteous, through their integrity and positive influence, bring joy and prosperity that uplifts the entire city. Their presence is a source of celebration and comfort.

On the other hand, the wicked, with their negative influence, create an atmosphere of tension and unease. Their departure brings relief and jubilation to the community. This verse reminds us that our conduct and character have far-reaching effects beyond our immediate circle.

It challenges us to consider: Are we the kind of people whose presence brings joy and prosperity to our communities? Or do we contribute to the collective sigh of relief when we’re gone?

Another writer put it this way: All men bring joy, some when they arrive and some when they leave. By striving for righteousness, we will bring joy when we arrive.

I’m Lonnie Davis and these are thoughts worth thinking.

Echoes of Our Lives

Our wisdom today comes from Proverbs 10:7.

“The memory of the righteous is a blessing, but the name of the wicked will rot.”

We all leave a legacy! A legacy is not about money or things. It is the enduring impact and memories you leave behind that continue to influence others long after you are gone.

All men and women leave a legacy, either for good or for bad. Most of us have walked through cemeteries and read, “Gone but not forgotten.” Very few will be remembered for 100 years, but for three or four generations, our legacy will still be shaping someone. If our legacy is good, then it will be a blessing. If it is wicked, then it will still be leading some to rotten actions.

In Numbers 14:18, the Bible talks about the iniquity of the fathers coming to bear upon the third and fourth generations. This doesn’t mean that God will grab our children and punish them. It means that the memory of the good or the evil you have done will still be influencing children for generations.

500 years before Jesus came to earth, Pericles wrote, “What you leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments, but what is woven into the lives of others.”

Your legacy is the echo of your life!


I’m Lonnie Davis and these are thoughts worth thinking.

The Pitfalls of Isolation

Our wisdom for today is taken from Proverbs 18: verse 1.

“He who isolates himself pursues selfish desires; he rebels against all sound judgment.”

This proverb emphasizes the value of being part of a community. Just like a tree needs sunlight, water, and soil to thrive, we need the presence of others to grow and flourish. Don’t let selfish desires cut you off from the nurturing environment of shared wisdom and support.

Consider the story of Jonah. His selfish desire to avoid preaching to Nineveh resulted in a series of disastrous events. Jonah’s rebellion against sound judgment led to a storm that endangered everyone on the ship, and he ended up in the belly of a great fish. It is only when Jonah acknowledged his need for God’s guidance and the importance of his mission to others that he found redemption and success. Jonah’s isolation and selfish motives led to unnecessary suffering.

An old African Proverb wisely states, “If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together.” In your life, you need to go far, so go with someone. Don’t isolate!

I’m Lonnie Davis
And these are thoughts worth thinking.