Think, then Talk

Today’s Reading is Proverbs 15:28.

“The heart of the righteous weighs its answers, but the mouth of the wicked gushes evil.”

Ever notice how a chef tastes the soup before serving it? A pinch of salt here, a dash of pepper there. He wouldn’t dream of sending out a dish he hasn’t sampled first.

What if we treated our words the same way?

The wise person, Solomon tells us, weighs their answers. They pause. They consider. They taste their words before serving them up. But the foolish? They let words gush out like water from a broken pipe—unfiltered, unexamined, often unwelcome.

Here’s the thing: words, once spoken, can’t be taken back. They land on hearts like stones—some that build, others that bruise. You’ve felt both, haven’t you? The warmth of an encouraging word. The sting of a careless one.

Before you speak today, take a moment. Let your heart weigh your words. Ask yourself: Will this heal or hurt? Build up or tear down? Is it true, necessary, kind?

Your words have power. They can breathe life or drain it. They can mend a broken spirit or shatter it further.

So taste them first.

Let your heart be the kitchen where wisdom seasons every sentence. People are listening. What comes out of your mouth matters more than you know.

I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking.

Show, Don’t Tell

Our Verse is 1 Corinthians 11:1

 “Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ.”

In this verse Paul shows us that he understood something we often forget: leadership isn’t about the rulebook you carry—it’s about the path you walk.

Notice what Paul didn’t say. He didn’t say, “Do what I tell you.” He said, “Follow me.” There’s a world of difference between the two. One demands compliance. The other invites companionship.

Paul lived what he taught. His letters weren’t penned from an ivory tower but from prison cells and dusty roads. He didn’t hand down commands he himself refused to obey. He walked the narrow way first, then turned around and said, “Come on. Follow me as I follow Christ.”

Someone once said, “My father didn’t tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.” That’s the heart of genuine influence. Whether you’re raising children, leading a team, or mentoring a friend, your life is the loudest sermon you’ll ever preach.

Ralph Waldo Emerson reminded us: “What you do speaks so loudly that I cannot hear what you say.”

Your kids are watching. Your coworkers are watching. Your neighbors are watching. Not to catch you in a mistake, but to learn how to live.

I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking.

The Perfect Reply

Proverbs 15:23 says, 

“A man has joy in an apt answer, And how delightful is a timely word!” 

There is something almost musical about the right words spoken at the right moment. They land softly, settle deeply, and stay with us long after the conversation ends.

Most of us have tried to come up with clever replies. I used to use a humorous line whenever someone asked if I was good at something. If they said, “Do you like to shoot pool?” I would grin and say, “I haven’t played since I lost the Texas State Championship two years ago.” It didn’t matter what the activity was. That was my go-to answer. It got a laugh. Clever words might entertain, but timely words can heal.

In John 8, Jesus gave a perfect word. A woman caught in adultery was thrown down before Him. The crowd demanded judgment. Jesus simply said, “He who is without sin among you, let him be the first to throw a stone at her.” With one sentence, pride was silenced. Stones fell from angry hands. One by one, they walked away.

Then Jesus spoke again, but not to the crowd. His second word was just for her. “Go. From now on sin no more.” No lecture. No shame. Just a gentle invitation to begin again.

Maybe you need that word today. You cannot rewrite yesterday, but with Jesus you can start a new chapter. Go, and sin no more.

I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking.

Tiny Bites Lie!

Ecclesiastes 7:8

“The end of a matter is better than its beginning, and a patient spirit is better than a proud one.”

This verse reminds us that beginnings are full of guesses and quick conclusions. We taste a sip, see a moment, hear a sentence, and think we already know the whole story. Pride rushes to judgment. Patience waits until the end.

I thought I knew about Pepsi. I was loyal to Coke and proud of it. Then came the taste test at the Kansas State Fair. One tiny sip and I chose Pepsi. I walked away surprised and not all that happy about it. Later, in Sam’s, I tasted a bite of gravy on a meatball. It was delicious, so I bought the gravy. I should have bought the meatballs. The powdered gravy ended up in the trash.

Neither of those small samples told the truth. A quick taste can fool you. I have learned that you cannot decide if you love swimming by dipping your toe in the water. You cannot judge a job by a brief tour. You cannot know a person by one conversation. You need time. You need patience.

Solomon knew that life needs more than first impressions. A patient spirit keeps us from walking away too soon. God often does His best work in the long stretch, not the first moment. Give things time to develop. Give people time to grow. Give God time to finish what He has started.

Pride wants to decide now. Patience waits for the end of the matter.

I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking.

Taste Your Words

Our reading today is from Proverbs 15:2.

“The tongue of the wise makes knowledge acceptable, but the mouth of fools spouts folly.”

When I read that, I picture a careful marksman. Before he pulls the trigger, he takes time to ready his stance, aim his sights, and then fires. Try it any other way and the shot goes astray. Words work much the same. Speak before you think, and someone gets hurt. Think before you speak, and healing often follows.

The wise and the foolish both talk, but the difference lies in “how” they talk. The wise person shapes their words so they can be heard. They season truth with grace. The fool fires off opinions without care for the target.

For example, imagine someone who’s struggling with a habit they can’t break. The wise might say, “I know that’s hard. God helped me when I prayed through each small step.” The fool might say, “You need to stop being lazy. You should have fixed this by now!” Same subject, different spirit.

Solomon reminds us that knowledge becomes acceptable only when it’s delivered with love. So before you speak, take a breath. Ready your heart. Aim your words. Then speak to bless, not to bruise.

That is wisdom in action. It is Proverbs 15:2 lived out in everyday speech. One elderly woman wisely said, “I always taste my words before I spit them out.”

I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking.

Working for Good!

Let’s read Romans 8:28

“We know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose.”

My Ginger and Jeff love this verse and can tell you about hard days. When flames consumed their apartment, they didn’t lose just possessions—they lost their sense of order. She and Jeff moved to a noisy place. Their business ground to a halt. Routines crumbled. Days grew heavy with uncertainty.

But God doesn’t waste our pain. He recycles it.

Within two weeks of the fire, Ginger and Jeff closed on a new home on a quiet cul-de-sac. A fresh start and a dream realized! I couldn’t help but smile, because sometimes the thing we’re running from is actually pushing us toward the thing we’ve been praying for.

This is what Romans 8:28 really means. Not that bad things don’t hurt. They do. Not that loss doesn’t sting. It does. But God doesn’t leave us in the wreckage. He’s working, even when we can’t see His hand moving.

I told Ginger and Jeff something I’m telling you today: “For Christians, everything works out in the end. If it hasn’t worked out yet, then it is not the end.”

Some answers come in two weeks. Some take two years. Some we won’t understand until eternity. But if you love God and follow His calling, He promises to weave every thread—even the dark ones—into something beautiful.

Your ending isn’t written yet. Trust the Author.

I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking.

God Sees Us

Proverbs 15:3 says, 

“The eyes of the LORD are in every place, watching the evil and the good.” 

That verse is both a comfort and a warning. We like the thought that God sees our faithfulness, but it is sobering to remember He also sees the moments we hope no one else notices.

I remember a day on the golf course when I met a man who apologized to me, a preacher, for his language. What struck me was not just his words, but his awareness. He noticed me, but he seemed blind to his 12-year-old nephew beside him. 

More troubling still, he seemed unaware that the Lord Himself was standing closer than either of us. It is easy to forget that what we do in private is just as visible to God as our public moments. 

We clean up our speech at church, hold our temper at work, and try to look like we have it all together. Yet the Lord is not fooled by our polished moments. He sees our hidden thoughts, hears our quiet complaints, and notices the attitudes we excuse because no one else hears them.

David asked, “Where can I go from Your presence?” The answer is nowhere. That truth is not meant to frighten us, but to shape us. 

When we live with a constant awareness that God is near, our behavior changes. We speak with more grace, we think with more purity, and we walk with more humility.

I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking.

Lessons from an Ant

Did you ever notice how God tucks wisdom in the most unexpected places? Solomon did. This wisest of kings pointed his students toward something small, something most of us would step over without a second thought, an ant.

“Go to the ant,” he wrote in Proverbs 6:6, “consider her ways and be wise.”

Consider her ways. What a tender invitation. God doesn’t scold us for needing to learn. He simply says, “Look. Watch. Learn.”

And what do we see?  Verses 7 and 8 tells us that the ant is a creature with no supervisor, no motivational speaker, no life coach, yet she shows up. Day after day, she does what needs doing. She’s a self-starter in a world that loves to sleep in.

The ant works hard, this tiny teacher. No complaints, no excuses. She provides for herself and her colony with steady, faithful effort.

And here’s the part that stirs me most: she prepares. While the sun shines and the harvest ripens, she gathers. She knows winter is coming. She lives with one eye on today and one on tomorrow.

What if we lived like that? What if we stopped waiting for someone to push us, stopped living only for this moment, and instead moved forward with purpose and preparation?

God’s classroom has no walls. Today, your teacher might be six-legged and smaller than your fingernail.

Consider her ways!

I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking.

Be Content!

Our Scripture for today is Proverbs 14:30.

“A tranquil heart is life to the body, but envy rots the bones.”

Ever notice how quickly joy evaporates when we start measuring our everyday life against someone else’s highlight reel?

You’re content with your home until you tour your neighbor’s renovation. Happy with your job until you hear about your friend’s promotion. Grateful for your blessings until social media reminds you of everything you don’t have.

Solomon knew we needed to be warned that “envy rots the bones.” Comparison robs peace. And envy? Envy is comparison with a bitter edge, a toxin that seeps into the marrow of our souls.

Notice the imagery. A contented heart brings life. It breathes vitality into your days, health into your body, lightness into your step. But envy doesn’t just wound; it rots. It decays from the inside out, gnawing away at the framework that holds you together.

We must remember that God hasn’t called you to live someone else’s story. He’s written one specifically for you, with your name on every chapter. Their blessings don’t diminish yours. Their success doesn’t cancel your purpose.

So quiet that voice that whispers, “Why not me?” Replace it with gratitude’s gentle refrain: “Look what God has done for me.”

Choose today to guard your heart against the poison of envy. Celebrate others without diminishing yourself. Trade comparison for contentment.

After all, a tranquil or contented heart isn’t just good theology.

It’s good medicine.

I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking.

After You Fall…

In Proverbs 24:16, Solomon said:

“Though a righteous man falls seven times, he rises again, but the wicked are brought down by calamity.”

I love this text. It has instructed me many times in life. Notice from this text that both the righteous and evil man falls, the difference between the righteous and evil is whether they get up from their fall. 

The righteous man, the good man, falls but gets up. The wicked man falls down and just wallows in his failure.

A man named Harlan illustrates this. He was a sixth-grade dropout. Over his life, He worked as a farmhand, a railroad worker, an insurance salesman, a tire salesman, and had a failed attempt in politics. At the end of all these jobs, he retired broke. With little more than social security checks, he decided to sell chicken, more specifically, a chicken recipe. He went from business to business asking restaurants, cafes, and grills to use his recipe and pay him 5 cents for each piece they sold. He tried for two years. “No, no, no,” he kept hearing. In fact, he heard 1,009 rejections before someone finally said “Yes.”

We all know him now as Colonel Harlan Sanders of Kentucky Fried Chicken fame. When he died in 1980, he was a rich man, a millionaire. He failed 1,009 times, but he tried and tried again.

Winners keep on keeping on. Losers quit!

I’m Lonnie Davis, and these are thoughts worth thinking.